Position your pussy on top of his face and Queen him close enough for him to touch you, but don't let him lick you…just let him sit and enjoy the odor while you tempt him and deny him the pleasure of kissing you. You may want to spend some time (15-20 minutes) like this and read a book or watch TV while he is trapped between your legs and strictly forbidden to taste you.
The Idea is to show him you are in control and to tease him and tempt him with your pussy. It's a way of educating him to have self control.
You must firmly tell him "NO!, it's off-limits!", then tease him by telling him "you know how much he wants it", and ask "why he thinks he should have the privledge of kissing you there"…if he tries to answer tell him to shut-up ad stop talking…and that he needs to "learn the hard way," that you are "in charge". Tell him this is a "lesson".
Do this when you want to tease him and remind him of your female authority, or anytime you want don't want him to actually pleasure you, but instead you want to teach him better self control.
It’s important to be close enough that his nose is buried in your pussy and your juices are dripping on him. You need to tempt and tease him. It's very important you have him tied up, locked up, or restrained.