The biggest erotic stimulation I feel generally comes though humiliation with an erotic twist. Fetishes and fantasies are pretty much all psychological for me, and humiliation administered by a dominant or authoritative female is incredibly exciting.
It's all in the way the woman firmly shows she's in charge and has control, while the man is in some silly predicament for her amusement or his punishment. To me, humiliation must be administered by FORCE against his will, otherwise, it just doesn't produce the desired effect.
Her "amusement" is the key to humiliation. It makes an enormous difference on the erotic impact when the man can feel, see, and know that the woman is enjoying the situation with maximum delight. If she's laughing, if she's happy, if she sweetly amused, then it's extraordinary and delightful.
"Her "amusement" is the key to humiliation. It makes an enormous difference on the erotic impact when the man can feel, see, and know that the woman is enjoying the situation with maximum delight. If she's laughing, if she's happy, if she sweetly amused, then it's extraordinary and delightful. "
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Hi - thanks for an interesting blog. I am in similar shoes to your wife's. I am wondering, how would it be possible for her to force him if he refuses? For instance how would I force a man into women's clothes if he refuses? Or down on his knees? etc etc? Do you have any suggestions?
ReplyDeleteYou may try as fun dressing him (or while he's sleeping) the take snap shots and threaten to distribute the pictures if he doesn't follow Your instructions.
DeleteMistress and her friends call me a cocksucker which I love
ReplyDeleteHi Anonymous, first understand that he wants to be controlled but his social conditioning makes it difficult for him to accept, despite how much he loves female domination. Therefore, you need to be strong and use any and all means to force his compliance. In the beginning it cannot be non-consensual, but after a week with no orgasms and the constant threat of other punishments his will and behavior will soon become a lot more pliable. Always continue to communicate.
ReplyDeleteanonymous: the easiest way to force him is photos, play a game tie him up to the bed, then get him terribly horny have a toy for him to suck, play with it, insert it in you then ask him to suck it, when he does snap a photo or two, use it as blackmail, then each time do a little more like make him wear something so you dont show photos of him sucking a dildo, then take photos of him wearing sissy clothes and then keep going, keep adding till he will do anything you want. if hes into to dressing at all it will work
ReplyDeleteOBEDIENCE: the act of doing something You want to or not to please your Mistress.
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