Read a book while you are queening him. If you are on curled up on the sofa, in bed, or in a chair reading a book or magazine, command him to go down on you and give you oral pleasure while you keep reading. If you decide to queen him directly, then just pick a book and forget about what he's doing to pleasure you while you go about your reading and completely ignore him!
The idea is to humiliate him by making him service you while you are completely focused on something else.
you can do this anytime, day or night. don't let him stop until you orgasm. Don't pay attention to him while he's doing it.