Dress up in your wedding dress and your wedding lingerie as a surprise and call him into your room. Have nice music and candles and call him over to kneel before you. Tell him you want to start your marriage off the right way this time, guiding his head under your dress as you lie back on the bed and making him go down and directly give you oral pleasure.
Tell him that your wedding day should've been like this, with him only allowed to give you oral pleasure….since this is the only way he could possibly satisfy you.
Tease him that you regret ever allowing him to fuck you with his pathetic little penis while you are married, and tell him this is a new wedding of sorts where you will set out the new rules for him in the marriage.
Make him pledge to you that he accepts that you will make all the decisions in the relationship and that you are the queen that he will worship.