Maybe Next Time - Shopping Adventure with Ex

Missed Opportunity – Maybe Next Time

Recently my wife and I were out shopping with my ex-girlfriend, who is still a very good friend of us both.  We were in a shop trying on several things, then my wife pointed out a pair of panties on display that she thought were cute.  My ex-girlfriend, who is definitely aware of my panty fetish would have had such a laugh if my wife would have made me try them on or even just buy them in my size in front of them both. 

Shortly after making several purchases, we all walked around for the rest of the day shopping together…. As I kept wondering to myself, wouldn’t it be awesome if she humiliated me in front of my ex by making me carry the shopping bags and walk behind them both. My Ex would have certainly found it funny and would have also accepted it, as she knows I’ve always been a bit submissive. But it would have been extra funny for her to see how much control my wife has over me.

At one point when we were walking into a store I wandered off on my own to another store and my wife had to call me to find out where I had gone.  Later, I was thinking of what a humiliation it would’ve been if she had sat me down and scolded or lectured me for going off on my own while my Ex just looked on.  It would have been oddly humiliating for me and certainly amusing for both of them to see me lectured on how I need to stay by them whether I’m bored or not.

When we got back to our home form a long day of shopping.  My Ex was sitting on the sofa taking off her shoes and remarking on how she would do anything for a foot massage at that moment.  I thought to myself that this would have been a very humiliating, but also amusing opportunity for my wife to have ordered me to kneel down and start giving her a foot massage.  She could have has me done all 4 of their feet while they giggled at the control she has over me.  

Finally, a few days later, I was thinking that it would have also been such a good opportunity for my wife to whisper into my ex’s ear about how I’m a bit of a submissive and how much fun she’s having with me under her control.   I could’ve just seen them both there on the sofa laughing and giggling as I served them some coffee and my wife took advantage of each time I left for the kitchen to share some more humiliating gossip.  I thought of myself walking into the room with them both trying to keep from laughing and put a serious face, but noticing my chastity key now hanging loose on my wife’s necklace in plain view because she would’ve obviously had just took it out from inside her shirt shown it off to my ex. She could’ve even had me put on an apron.

These were all simple little opportunities that perhaps only I saw, but it’s fun to think about what could’ve been J

 

Show Chastity to Girlfriends

Show off chastity device and sissy husband to friends – embarrassing him while he is serving them

 

Bring Out the Cage by Surprise

Surprise him when he least expects it by leaving the cage out some time for him to find in a state of shock…or better yet, ask the cleaning woman to take it out before she leaves next time, and make him clean it.

 

Massage Above Cage

Get yourself a nice massage above the cage while he’s in it!

Identified as Sissy

Whenever possible, correct anyone (including him) referring to him as a husband or man, by simply saying "you mean, my Sissy Girl (or boy)". 

This is a subtle, but public, acknowledgement of you treating and describing him as a sissy.  Not all people will understand when you say such a thing, but he certainly will, and the result will be deliciously and momentarily humiliating.

You should simply and politely correct anyone who says his name or refers to him as "Mr.  ….", by simply saying that he should be referred to as "Miss Sissy (name)". 

You can do this anytime you are in a public place, such as a restaurant or a check in counter at a hotel, etc.  Act surprised if you call or arrive to someplace and he is listed as "Mr. …", then after correcting the woman, turn to him and angrily scold him for not having give his name as "Miss Sissy (name)".  Then turn to him directly and publicly remind him that he will be punished later for you having to correct him (that will sginify you are firmly in charge). Then actually punish him in a very feminine way to make sure get's the point and always identifies himself the proper way in the future.  Do it every time possible in front of any woman. 

Only do this in front of women, as anything else would be a turn off.  The only time you should mention it in front of a male, is if you are cuckolding him with the male.

A Sissy Tramp Stamp

Get your sissy a cute little Tramp Stamp.  A Tramp Stamp is what most people call the sexy little tattoo just above a woman's ass and visible above the line of her jeans.  I don't suggest an actual Tattoo, but perhaps a nice temporary tattoo that says "sissy" or simply has a nice feminine flowery design to it.  If he tan's with the temporary tattoo, the mark will stay for weeks at least.

Tramp Stamp's can be sexy, but are surely very feminine, so forcing him have a tramp stamp will be a firm mark that he's being feminized.  It's a source of humiliation that can be called upon at any moment, as you can easily raise the back of his shirt to show anyone of your girlfriends what a sissy he is.   It will also serve as a constant reminder to him that you are forcing his feminization.

You should tell him that you find the tramp stamps very sexy and as a good little bitch he's become you want him to have one.  You can strap him down naked to a bench and blindfold him as you tell him this and then simply start applying a temporary tattoo just above his ass.   Every time you see it, you  should remind him of what a slut he looks like and that it make you want pull down his pants and fuck him from behind with a strapon.  Tell him it will look really sexy in the photos that you will take from behind him while he's on his knees and sucking a man's cock for the first time.

Pick out a design that will look nice just above his panty-line and place it so that it can't be covered up when he has pants on, only when he  has a shirt on.   Pick a feminine design which really enforces his position as a sissy…. Perhaps a silhouette of femdom scene, or a women with a strapon, or a poetically written "sissy boy (or girl)".

Do this after he's had his body hair completely removed.  You should forcefully do this, so pick a time when you can have him strapped down and tied up with his ass in the air and can't move. 

You could do this at home alone with him with the room dark and candle lit, while you are dressed like a stunning dominatrix.  You could have friends over to observe and help in his "branding", or you could also do this at a fetish party in a very public ceremony with people looking on.

You should take the time to pick out a nice and cleaver design, and a method that make it semi-permanent… like a long-lasting temporary tattoo.  Don't try to get him involved in helping you apply it, plan it, or select it.  You need to do this with force, as a surprise, after he's not able to move and he has his naked ass in the air ready to be branded.

Sissy Salon Treatments

Take your Sissy to the spa or salon and have him go through a complete makeover with full spa treatments.  Have him get a facial, wrap, eyebrow trim, body scrub, etc.

This will make your sissy feel like a real girl getting real feminine treatments, and more over it will publically humiliate him in front of the other women who are performing the treatments or who are also in the salon. 

Tell him its time for him to have some special treatments done that are specifically for a sissy like him.

Bring him to a salon or spa where you know there are a few young attractive women who are willing to do give him a bit of a makeover and have fun with it.   Before going to the spa make sure he's wearing both a pink bra and panties, and that you have him wear a feminine blouse and some pants that could easily be mistaken as feminine as well .  Load him up with some female perfume, just before entering the salon.   Make sure he is wearing his chastity device (very important) and you should be wearing the key.   Tell the women at the spa to take him and do as they wish (nails, pedicure, bikini waxing, facial, etc) and not to hold back.  Be sure to take pictures of the whole process!

Do this on a special day, when you want to surprise him.  Have him block out a few hours in his schedule, then take him to the spa.    You may consider leaving him at the spa and meeting a date for a few hours, telling the staff of the salon to keep him busy for a few hours because you have a date at home and you don't want him back until a certain time.  Alternatively, you may want to have fun and do some spa treatments together with him.

The women at the spa will almost certainly catch on to the situation, and they should have a good laugh.  Remember that young attractive women are the most intimidating to be humiliated by, so try to seek out a salon with such type of staff.   Let them have fun and take pictures of his predicament....  this is all about public humiliation!

Make you don't involve any other men, as it would be a total turn off.  Also, don't be afraid or embarrassed…. This situation is to embarrass and humiliate him, that's the point.