Locked in Love: Practical Tip

Send him a formal "invitation" in the form of a card or email (appropriately titled "be careful what you wish for") telling him to meet you at a certain time, wearing whatever you tell him to, and the exact position he should be in when you arrive to the "meeting".

Have the "no turning back now" conversation with him. Confront him, and makes him confess…. Tie him up or lock him in a cage while you run through this blog or some other list of all the crazy fetishes he has.

Show him pictures or recall specific events or specific proof of how you know he loves these naughty fetishes. Be understanding and promises him you won't tell anyone as long as he follows your instructions.

Then confidentially and firmly assume the role of the superior authority and begin to have s long and serious conversation with him about the changes you have in mind for him.

Make a list (you can use the 100's of ideas on this site) of things that might happen to him. Make him understand that these are not just threats, but that your WILL soon or later follow through with them. Make sure he completely understands that he's giving up control and changing the dynamic of your relationship. Make a list of new rules that he will immediately have to comply with, right them down, and read them off...obtaining his confirmation each time.

Tell him from the beginning what you will expect from him on each day of the week, every week, until you say otherwise. You need to be very prepared to have this conversation, so please make sure you do the proper research and prepare ahead of time. This conversation should be video recorded and kept to tease him with later. This will be the day you'll both always remember, when you took formally started training him and re-positioned the relationship. Therefore this conversation needs to be serious, sincere, kind, strict, firm, and fun....and most of all unidirectional, coming only from you!

Here are some ways you can use your knowledge of his fantasies to make your normal sexual encounters to more exciting:

· Talk with him about his fantasies. Ask him to reveal more about his fantasies to you.

· Stop him before making love or letting him penetrate you and make him ask you for permission. Then make him thank you before and afterwards.

· Tease him that you are only using him for practice and that you only really enjoy it when you are fucking another guy.

· Talk about other, better lovers.

· Tease his penis and his ability to satisfy you.

· As a surprise, make him put a condom on. Tell him that you are not ready to let him cum inside you except on very very special occasions. Tell him that is a privilege you might allow someone else, but definitely not him. (be sure to keep the contents of the condom for later use)

· Practice “Orgasm Control” training on him. Learn how to stop, force, or ruin his orgasms through your commands.

· Talk to him about your fantasies. Tell him some of the crazy things you fantasize about. Don't be shy or embarrassed, because he will definitely enjoy hearing about them.

· Re-live past experiences by reminding him of exciting times and ways you've fucked before.

· Threaten him…tell him you will do something naughty to him that you know he fantasizes about.

· Force him go down on you and lick you clean after you both orgasm. Make it a general rule that he must clean you up with his tongue every time he cums. Tease him that he should get used to taste cum dripping from you, whether he's had an orgasm or not, because next time it probably will be someone else’s cum he’ll be licking from between your legs.

· Stop him in the middle and bring out the chastity cage and set it next to you and don't say anything, then slowly let him continue to make love to you.

· Stop him when you are making love and make him pull out, then Queen him as a surprise. Don't let him have any room to move his head out of the way, hold it in place strong

· Collect his milk for a rainy day. Each time he cums, collect what you can in an ice tray or cup. You can freeze it and use it later to tease him and play with his mind.

· Tell him you’re going to make him watch you have sex with someone else and learn how it should be done.

· Simply stop him in the middle of making love, make him pull out of you and tell him you don't want to continue. Make him pull out and put on a strapon instead in order to bring you to orgasm.

· Tease him about what his ex-girlfriends must have thought of him, and his pathetic fetishes. Tell him that you've had a chance to talk with one of them and you heard from her that she knew about his perverted secrets. Tell him that she just laughed so hard listening to all the ways you humiliate him now and asked if she can help humiliate him some time. Tease about what they must do now with their boyfriends, which they could of probably never done with him.

· When kissing passionately and about to make love, as soon as he takes his pants off, stop him, then him bring him to the mirror and tell him to look at himself in panties. Take him to the full length mirror and make him look at himself. Tell him you can't fuck a guy who wears panties, then either get a strapon or ask him to find you a real man.

· Make him pay money for the opportunity to serve you or have sex with you. Tell him that he needs to put up some cash if he wants you to even consider having anything to do with his pathetically small and insufficient penis.

· talk about other cocks when you are having sex with him… let him know you would prefer something else, something better.

· Take lots of pictures of naughty, sexy, and perverted pictures of each other.