Maybe Next Time - Shopping Adventure with Ex

Missed Opportunity – Maybe Next Time

Recently my wife and I were out shopping with my ex-girlfriend, who is still a very good friend of us both.  We were in a shop trying on several things, then my wife pointed out a pair of panties on display that she thought were cute.  My ex-girlfriend, who is definitely aware of my panty fetish would have had such a laugh if my wife would have made me try them on or even just buy them in my size in front of them both. 

Shortly after making several purchases, we all walked around for the rest of the day shopping together…. As I kept wondering to myself, wouldn’t it be awesome if she humiliated me in front of my ex by making me carry the shopping bags and walk behind them both. My Ex would have certainly found it funny and would have also accepted it, as she knows I’ve always been a bit submissive. But it would have been extra funny for her to see how much control my wife has over me.

At one point when we were walking into a store I wandered off on my own to another store and my wife had to call me to find out where I had gone.  Later, I was thinking of what a humiliation it would’ve been if she had sat me down and scolded or lectured me for going off on my own while my Ex just looked on.  It would have been oddly humiliating for me and certainly amusing for both of them to see me lectured on how I need to stay by them whether I’m bored or not.

When we got back to our home form a long day of shopping.  My Ex was sitting on the sofa taking off her shoes and remarking on how she would do anything for a foot massage at that moment.  I thought to myself that this would have been a very humiliating, but also amusing opportunity for my wife to have ordered me to kneel down and start giving her a foot massage.  She could have has me done all 4 of their feet while they giggled at the control she has over me.  

Finally, a few days later, I was thinking that it would have also been such a good opportunity for my wife to whisper into my ex’s ear about how I’m a bit of a submissive and how much fun she’s having with me under her control.   I could’ve just seen them both there on the sofa laughing and giggling as I served them some coffee and my wife took advantage of each time I left for the kitchen to share some more humiliating gossip.  I thought of myself walking into the room with them both trying to keep from laughing and put a serious face, but noticing my chastity key now hanging loose on my wife’s necklace in plain view because she would’ve obviously had just took it out from inside her shirt shown it off to my ex. She could’ve even had me put on an apron.

These were all simple little opportunities that perhaps only I saw, but it’s fun to think about what could’ve been J

 

Relive Wedding Night, Your Way

Relive your wedding day in a whole new way!

Plan ahead and send him a card or invitation saying that he needs to be dressed in his best suit, just as we was on your wedding day, and he should meet you somewhere (like a hotel for example, or just outside your home).   

Then surprise him by being dressed in your wedding dress, and tell him you will be celebrating your wedding night all over again…in a whole new way… your way!!! 

Be sure that he’s in chastity and that you have plenty of ways to ensure he complies with your commands.

Then start the fun!

 

A Formal Coversation to Start This Adventure

Send him a formal "invitation" in the form of a card or email (appropriately titled "be careful what you wish for") telling him to meet you at a certain time, wearing whatever you tell him to, and the exact position he should be in when you arrive to the "meeting".

Have the "no turning back now" conversation with him. Confront him, and makes him confess….  Tie him up or lock him in a cage while you run through this blog or some other list of all the crazy fetishes he has. 

Show him pictures or recall specific events or specific proof of how you know he loves these naughty fetishes.  Be understanding and promises him you won't tell anyone as long as he follows your instructions.

Then confidentially and firmly assume the role of the superior authority and begin to have s long and serious conversation with him about the changes you have in mind for him. 

Make a list (you can use the 100's of ideas on this site) of things that might happen to him.  Make him understand that these are not just threats, but that your WILL soon or later follow through with them.  Make sure he completely understands that he's giving up control and changing the dynamic of your relationship.  Make a list of new rules that he will immediately have to comply with, right them down, and read them off...obtaining his confirmation each time. 

Tell him  from the beginning what you will expect from him on each day of the week, every week, until you say otherwise.  You need to be very prepared to have this conversation, so please make sure you do the proper research and prepare ahead of time.  This conversation should be video recorded and kept to tease him with later.  This will be the day you'll both always remember, when you took formally started training him and re-positioned the relationship. Therefore this conversation needs to be serious, sincere, kind, strict, firm, and fun....and most of all unidirectional, coming only from you!